Every year, Canadians lose millions of dollars to romance scams. Scammers often leave victims with emotional distress and feelings of embarrassment. If you’re a victim of a romance scam, you’re not alone. Please report it to your local police and contact your financial institution immediately.
How Romance Scams Work:
A romance scammer creates convincing fake identities on social media, dating sites or other online platforms, often using stolen photos and fake personal information. They create personas that appeal to their victims, often posing as doctors, military, oil rig engineers or entrepreneurs. Once they gain their victim’s trust, they invent urgent financial needs and ask for money through wire transfers, gift cards, cryptocurrency ATMs etc. After receiving the funds, the scammer disappears, leaving the victims in emotional distress.
Red Flags to Watch for:
Be cautious if someone you meet online:
- Professes love before meeting in-person.
- Consistently avoids phone or video calls.
- Makes excuses to not meet in-person, often claiming they’re working abroad.
- Has profiles that are too good to be true.
- Addresses you by the wrong name or sends poorly written messages.
- Shares elaborate, dramatic stories to gain your sympathy.
- Acts distressed or angry to guilt you into sending money.
How to protect yourself?
- Don’t share personal details such as your date of birth, address, work details or financial information with new relationships or strangers.
- Research the person’s identity. Use tools such as Google reverse image search to determine whether they have copied their photos from the Internet.
- Don’t share intimate photos or videos with someone you have met online. These may be used in blackmailing.
- Avoid sending money in any form to someone who has not met in-person.
- Be careful of what you share on social media. Scammers often use these as insights to create their tactics.
- If you believe you’ve been a victim of a romance scam, immediately report it to your local police and contact your financial institution.
For more information and tips on protecting yourself and your loved ones, visit the Canadian Anti-Fraud Centre's page on romance scams.